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Gerontophobia (The Fear of Getting Old)


2008
03.22

“Keep me searchin’ for a heart of gold, and I’m gettin’ old.”

Neil Young, “Heart of Gold”

A few months ago, I met Lizza, who’s in her early 30′s. When she realized I was older, she talked about “feeling it.” The coming of age. Old age… and all its concomitant side effects.

I feel the same. There’s a certain wistfulness in the realization that time’s passing. And that sooner or later, time, my time, will be up.

Most of my friends and acquaintances merely laugh it off.

I don’t. (Or, I try to, only that I imagine hearing a faint echo, as if the grim reaper itself were Old Sir Mick singing “Time is on My Side.”)

I feel old. Even when I feel young inside, my body feels old.

Even what I used to think was this raging fire inside my soul seems to be just dying embers.

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